I am an adult who had something incredibly huge, severe, and life-changing happen. I don’t think some people in my life get that. This has been absolutely devastating. Because of this happening to me, there needs to be a lot of changes in my life and the way I’m dealt with by others. If you have a loved one that gets sick, they’re probably going to tell you all kinds of things like “I don’t like that” or “don’t touch me there.” FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, respect their wishes. You should be respectful of someone’s wishes like that anyway, even if your loved one is perfectly healthy. But after something like this, it should go without saying. For some people in my life it did not go without saying. It didn’t go with saying for some people.