I think I’ve proven by means of this blog that I know a thing or two. After this happened to me, all the people in my life thought and treated me as if I had lost all my knowledge. Everyone except the three loves of my life, my best friends Vicki, Mandy, and Alyson. I guess that’s why they’re my best friends. They never made me feel even remotely close to anything like that. Everyone else did. Everyone else would say now, three years later, that they never thought that but that’s bullshit. Everyone thought that. No one thought I knew anything after this happened. Well I did. I didn’t lose one iota of my knowledge or memory. Don’t assume that your loved one has lost anything intellectually. That will set you up for severe resentment later on.